Father’s Day Fantasies (Rated PG for Sexual Innuendos and Vocabulary)


This year for Father’s Day I gave my husband what almost every husband always wants. Let me go back…

This spring I discovered my husband was addicted to pornagraphy. He is in recovery, attending group twice a week, and he has told me his sobriety date…

Since he has been sober, his longevity in our bedroom playtime has decreased a little. I believe this is because he is not master-bating like he used to. The truth is, as long as we are both satisfied, I don’t see this as a problem.

Father’s Day morning when I surprised him, he was very pleased, but for the first time in weeks his longevity was more like it used to be. I know there are many physical or emotional reasons he could last longer. I, however, began to panic. Did he slip and not tell me? Is he struggling in his recovery? Is he too afraid to tell me?

I don’t know the answers to any of these questions, but I do know that these kinds of doubts are driving me iNsAnE!

Is it possible to ask for reassurance without hurting his feelings?
Is this a ‘let go and let God’ thing?



2 thoughts on “Father’s Day Fantasies (Rated PG for Sexual Innuendos and Vocabulary)

  1. It’s all good sis. I doubt that he “slipped”. It is just that you caught him at the perfect time for us men to have more fun in bed. There is no stress in the day when we first wake up, which helps a lot. His mind was on you and not work, the yard, the car or anything like that. It was on you. And the fact that you surprised him added to it. I applaud you for surprising him!!


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